Have you ever had a conversation with someone, and rather than feeling like you're criticizing them, you try to share something subtly? Then, you realize they have NO idea what you're trying to get across to them.
Face it - some people just do not grasp subtle, at all!!!
I deal with this a lot, on a daily basis. It's frustrating; which is why, with most people, I just tell them like it is. I would rather deal with that fallout; than feel like I'm banging either my (or someone else's) head on a wall.
That's where I have finally evolved to in myself, and I have no desire to go back. Mind you, my motivation is honesty, not to manipulate.
That's what relationships need - knowing the other's heart, even when they say something hurtful.
I feel this is getting more and more rare, as time progresses and people evolve...and it makes me sad.
What are YOUR thoughts about this?
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