We have all been wearing masks for the biggest part of the last 3 months - an end is, basically, not in sight; but I digress.
A Narcissist has been wearing a mask for so long, it is a part of who they are. It's embedded in their very skin. The end of their tyranny, will only come as people stand up to them.
Though not an easy thing - it can be quite scary; it IS possible.
Keep in mind, they have NO desire to change; so their "rehabilitation" cannot be your focus.
You need to focus on you, your children, and safety for all.
Reach out - help is available. It is NOT an easy road; but navigable.
Have a good day, and be safe...