If Holding Them Accountable...
...is "messing up their lives", or "making them look bad" - keep in mind that it is the choices THEY made that are causing their problems - NOT YOU.
Read that, again.
Narcissistic abusers usually twist the truth to make EVERYONE but themselves at fault for any problems that may arise - in basically every area of their lives.
They are masters at charming people to see mostly the "good that they do", or "how happy to help, they are", etc. A more accurate description might be, "Master of Manipulation".
I think THE most pathetic part is, that most people will laugh at them, behind closed doors, of course; because they do NOT handle any kind of confrontation well. Also, most people don't really value the relationship they have with them, because it's not worth all the grief.
So, they continue, living the rest of their lives moving from Victim to Victim; living the facade of how great they are.
A pathetic existence, don't you think?
Have a good day, and be safe... #listen #ibelieveyou #doyouhear
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