Do you find yourself doing this, a lot?
The way your life is going? The job you have? That you don't have a job? The way people treat you? How your kids act toward you? Your home life? That you can't have the things you want? And on and on...
Do you realize the one word in all of the above sentences is YOU?
You are the only one that can make the difference in your life. By the choices YOU make. If you resent any part of your life - YOU have to make the changes.
If you're making yourself crazy trying to please everyone else but you, there's the YOU, again.
I'm not saying to ignore legitimate needs - I mean, you gotta feed your kids; but, if you don't have a healthy mix of meeting your own needs mixed in, THAT'S where resentment usually enters.
Does this bring up any thoughts of any specific situations in your life? How, or what can you start changing, right now? Maybe make yourself a list, to start? Every journey starts with a single step...
Have a good day, and be safe... #listen #ibelieveyou #doyouhear
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